I love this song for multiple reasons:
- It's in Enchanted. I love that movie.
- Amy Adams singing. I'm a fan.
- There are steel drums in this song=awesome.
- Central park craziness? Loved it!
- This song focuses around one of the most central concerns of a relationship.
How do you know if someone loves you? How do you know if you love someone?
I think that there are a bunch of different ways you can answer either of those questions, but my personal favorite is the Languages of Love.
In short summary, each of us speaks a language of love. They are Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch. While everyone can recognize different ways that love are expressed, one is usually pretty dominant over the others. For some, a heartfelt compliment really does mean the world. Another gauges closeness by physical contact.
For me, quality time is how you show me you care about me. If you want me to know how much you care about me, go out of your way to spend time with me and make that time be meaningful. There are several books associated with the Love Languages theory, and I have read one or two of them. It was really interesting to me to see how much I could apply it into my life (and I'm not even dating anyone).
If you haven't ever looked in to these books, I'd recommend giving it a shot. It really can't hurt, and it might just clear things up so
that's how she knows that you love her
that's how you show her you love her